Ever noticed how everything just feels a bit harder after a bad night’s sleep? That morning coffee just doesn’t taste as good, little things seem to take on a bigger deal, and even your favourite playlist can’t cheer you up.
It’s not just you. Sleep has a huge impact on our mood, and understanding that connection can be a real game-changer for your mental well-being.
The Sleep-Mood Connection
When we sleep, our brain gets a chance to reset. It’s like when you plug in your phone at night – it needs that downtime to recharge. If you don’t get enough sleep, it’s harder for your brain to regulate emotions, concentrate, and handle stress. So it’s no surprise that you’re more likely to feel irritable, anxious, or even down if you haven’t had a good night’s sleep.
Here’s what’s happening behind the scenes:
- Poor sleep = poor emotional regulation
- If you’re not getting enough sleep, it can make it hard to regulate your emotions. When you’re tired, your brain’s emotional control centre (the amygdala) goes into overdrive. Little things can feel overwhelming, and you’re more reactive than usual.
- Lack of rest makes stress harder to manage
- If you don’t get enough rest, it’s harder to deal with stress.Sleep helps your body lower cortisol, the stress hormone. If you don’t get enough rest, cortisol sticks around longer, making everything feel more intense.
- Chronic sleep issues and mood disorders are linked
- Studies have shown that there’s a link between not getting enough sleep and developing mood disorders. Long-term sleep deprivation can increase the risk of anxiety and depression. In fact, studies show that people with insomnia are ten times more likely to develop depression.
How Much Sleep Do You Really Need?
Most adults need between 7–9 hours of sleep a night. But it’s not just about how long you sleep, it’s also about the quality of your sleep. Deep, uninterrupted sleep is what helps you wake up feeling refreshed and emotionally balanced.
Tips for Better Sleep (and a Better Mood)
Getting better sleep doesn’t have to mean a complete lifestyle overhaul. Start with these small changes:
- Stick to a routine – go to bed and wake up at the same time every day (even during the weekends!).
- Limit screen time before bed – Blue light can trick your brain into thinking it’s daytime.
- Create a relaxing wind-down routine – Try reading, journaling, or light stretching in the evening,\.
- Watch what you eat and drink – Avoid heavy meals, caffeine, and alcohol close to bedtime.
- Make your bedroom a sleep sanctuary – Keep it cool, quiet, and comfortable.
Final Thoughts
We often think of sleep as something we can do without when life gets busy. But actually, getting enough good sleep is really important for your overall health and your mood. Make sleep a priority, just like you would a healthy meal or a workout, and you’ll see the difference, inside and out.
If you’re keen to start sleeping better and feeling better, then this is a sign you’re ready. Your mood (and your future self) will thank you.
When you protect your sleep, you protect your peace —because how you rest shapes how you feel.
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Corlissa Seah, Counsellor & Founder of Vibe Check Practice
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